Here is a great testimony from a model, Nicole! She also has a website I've mentioned on here a few times.
I always wanted to be famous.
I had been modeling and acting since I was 5 years old. I had been
with the same agency in Portland, Oregon for about 8 years, and had
appeared in numerous publications, ads, magazines, television
commercials. I had my own checking account by the age of 12, and saw
billboards with my face on them as I was being driven to junior high
dances. But I was a ”big fish in a small pond”. I was ready for
the big time, and wanted to make it in Hollywood.
I moved to Hollywood at the age of 16 and plunged headfirst into the
task of becoming an “it” girl. Although I was still in high school, I
partied with well-known actors, had an all-access pass to the hottest
clubs, and mingled with the see-and-be-seen celebrities. But because I
was young and naïve, I neglected the most basic things that actually
would help me achieve my goal of fame: getting a headshot and a resume,
taking advanced acting classes, making sure I got enough sleep at
night.
I signed with a small agency and began modeling to pay the bills
while making my way through the cutthroat industry that is the devil’s
playground. Meanwhile, I witnessed many people compromise their dignity
to be accepted amongst the superficial Hollywood standards. From up
close, I saw the ‘famous’ people ruining their lives with drugs and
excessive partying. I even knew some who sadly died as a result of their
extreme lifestyles.
The glamour, glitz and the lights had a dark side that terrified me.
Although I was running around with the cool kids and living the life of a
starlet, I was still a small town girl in my heart. Not only that, but
something never felt quite right when it came time to actually audition.
Each time a camera was focused on me, I didn’t feel prepared enough,
pretty enough, or completely ready to be scrutinized by the people who
make it all “happen”.
I now believe that the fear that prevented me from achieving
Hollywood stardom was actually God’s way of protecting me from an
industry that chews up and destroys young women like me. But at the
time, I was just heartbroken.
At 23, I fell into a deep depression. I felt helpless and foolish
that had I allowed myself to get into this position. With no college
degree and no alternate plan for my life, I knew I had made a huge
mistake. I didn’t know where to go.
I turned to every self-help book available: The Law of Attraction, The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, all the Anthony Robbins books – but nothing helped me.
Then everything changed.
Every single night I would look up into the stars and pray for a
miracle. I completely gave my life to God. I asked for guidance to lift
me out of the horrible situation I was in. I saw what “making it” did
to others in this industry and knew I didn’t want that for my life. It
was at that point that I realized my great truth:
Everything I went through – all I experienced in that dark city – was for a bigger purpose.
I now see the kind of hold that Hollywood’s harmful message
had on me since the time I was a young girl. This influence led me to
make decisions in my late teens that I now regret. I now see that the
body truly is a temple and young girls and women for instance shouldn’t
have sex so easily. Girls often look to sex to feel loved but in the
hands of the wrong guy it can destroy self-esteem.
It was Hollywood that made me want to be an actress. I was so
infatuated with the fame game – it all looked so glamorous – but in the
end it was quite the opposite. I’m not saying everyone in Hollywood is
bad. In fact, the Hollywood experience helped me to look at what I
really wanted for myself. My mistakes were part of my journey and my
value system has completely changed as a result of it. I found
Christianity and it turned my life around.
My bigger purpose is this: I want to help other young women avoid some of the same mistakes I’ve made.
Using my experience as a platform, I’d like to be a voice that’s out
there to help others – especially young women – be their best selves. By
questioning cultural norms, exposing the truth of media exploitation
and finding and sharing inspiration from scripture and my own life, I
can show those who seek it what it means to be a person of value and
confidence.
Christianity needs to be redefined for young girls. There is a
certain stereotype of how a Christian girl should look, dress and act. I
want to show young women that you can be a good Christian and still
embrace many parts of the popular culture.
God listened to my prayers. His power helped deliver me through the
depression I was in, financially and spiritually. Every single thing I
am now blessed with – material and emotional – is because God knew that
once I received these great blessings, I would give myself over to Him
and in turn show others the power of God to make anything happen. I just
hope through my story – and through God’s will – that I can inspire you
to lead a more meaningful life.
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